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Should You Identify Small Groups by Age?
This is Kerrick Thomas here, Executive Pastor at The Journey and co-author of Activate: An Entirely New Approach to Small Groups.
Nelson asked me share today about another one of the questions that people ask regularly when setting up their Small Groups System – the question of whether or not to identify small groups by age, or to ask it differently, should you offer “age-graded” groups?
This is often asked by people who are transitioning from a Sunday School model or another approach that traditionally identified groups by age, and like a lot of questions when it comes to small groups the answer is… it depends.
Here at The Journey, we do identify some groups by age – but not all.
For instance, we have college-aged, recent grads, 20′s, 30′s, over 35 and over 40 groups. But many of our groups are just open, “general” groups for people of all ages. Our average age is 29, so we’re still pretty young as a church.
My thought would be that the more diverse you are, age-wise, the more you might want to designate the groups.
We’ll also talk with the group leaders about it. Usually, if the leaders are especially young or are older – you might think about designating by age as well.
I hope that helps!
Blessings…
Kerrick
P.S. If you’re ready to get intense with maximizing your church’s Small Groups system, check out The Small Groups Intensive.
How to "Activate" Small Groups in a New Church Start
This is Kerrick Thomas – I’m the Executive Pastor at The Journey Church and co-author of “Activate” with Nelson.
He asked me to address a question today that we receive regularly about when and how to start Small Groups in a new church plant.
We’re often asked if the Activate small groups system will work in a small church plant, and let me just say “yes,” I believe the “Activate” strategy of semester-based small groups does work for a small church plant (under 100 people).
Remember – The Journey was a church plant of about 80 people when we started semester-based small groups 7 months into the church.
We often caution people not to try to launch and start groups at the same time, because of the energy it takes away from the other systems of your church in the early days. However, six months after launch (or if you’re already running over 100 adults) is a good time to get your groups started.
Let’s say you just launched this past February, this would be my suggestion to you… begin your small groups this Fall with what we describe in “Activate” as a church-wide campaign.
In other words – develop a teaching series for the Fall that ties in with the small group curriculum you will be using and have all of the small groups study the same material. That way – all of the groups are studying the same material every day and it ties in directly with what you are teaching on Sundays.
In the other semesters, we give our small group leaders the freedom to choose the study they lead (with approval and direction from our staff). But every Fall we do a campaign where all the groups study the same material.
We find it gives a lot of momentum and synergy to the church.
Here are some ideas to prepare for your full-church campaign:
1 – You and another staff person might consider leading a couple of small groups this summer with people in your church who you would like to be the small group leaders for the fall.
2 – Start sign ups for your Fall groups shortly after school starts back in the Fall. For us in NYC that’s Labor Day. We begin sign ups that weekend and then kick the groups off a month later (the first week of October).
3 – Pick a study that allows you to teach on the topic on Sunday and have the groups reading about it during the week (and then they discuss it together in their groups). We even sometimes provide daily devotions to everyone signed up for a group by e-mail.
4 – A good example of curriculum is “The Purpose Driven Life” and the “40 Days of Purpose Campaign”. Each Sunday you teach on one of the purposes and the groups are reading the “Purpose Driven Life” during the week.
We’ve also done campaigns on the Sermon on the Mount, the New Testament Challenge, Financial Freedom, 40 Days of Faith, etc.
Hope this helps give you some ideas!
God bless…
Kerrick
P.S. For more on implementing a semester-based Small Groups System in your church, check out the three-hour audio training: The Activate Seminar.
How to Involve Your Full Staff in Groups
Adam Bishop here, Small Groups Pastor at The Journey. Nelson asked me to post today about how to get your full staff involved in Small Groups.
In Activate: An Entirely New Approach to Small Groups, Nelson and Kerrick mention that The Journey has a scalable structure for our small group system, including “Coaches.”
Sometimes we’re asked who makes up that “Coach” level of the system and what purpose they serve, so first, let me clarify the language we use at The Journey.
In our system, we have Growth Group Leaders, Team Leaders, and Coaches:
- Growth Group Leaders lead the Groups- providing leadership, communication and care to the Group Members.
- Team Leaders provide communication and care to the Group Leaders on their team.
- Coaches provide communication and care to both the Team Leaders and the Group Leaders on their team.
At The Journey, our Coaches are our staff.
This goes back to Big Idea #9 from Activate – Think Full Staff Participation, Not Staff Specialist…
The “Coaching” level of the structure provides a clear plan to involve all of our staff in the leadership of Groups at our church.
Now, from one staff person to the next the amount of time spent on groups varies, but everyone spends at least some time working on Groups.
No matter the size of your church right now, you can build this full staff participation into place as you increase the number of Groups and staff at your church.
The key to successfully implementing the Activate system (or any healthy small groups system) is to get away from having one “staff specialist” who does everything Small Groups, and develop a plan to involve your entire staff in the process.
You’ll find that this increases buy-in and excitement about groups, across the board, at your church.
I hope this helps!
P.S. For an in-depth training resource that’s all about the Activate, semester-based Small Groups System, check out The Small Groups Intensive.
Don't Miss The Activate Webinar – Tomorrow!
Hey – I don’t want you to miss out on The Activate Webinar that Kerrick Thomas and Adam Bishop are leading tomorrow (January 20) at 1:00 Eastern.
If you’re currently doing semester-based (Activate) small groups or are considering them, this is a great training opportunity for you.
Best of all, there are no travel plans required - you can join Kerrick and Adam in this training from your home or office – you just need a computer with internet access and a phone line.
One registration per church is required - that means you can gather around as many of your team as possible to listen in.
Here are the details:
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
1:00 pm – 3:00 pm (Eastern)
12:00 pm – 2:00 pm (Central)
11:00 am – 1:00 pm (Mountain)
10:00 am – 12:00 pm (Pacific)
Here’s what you can expect to learn:
- How do I get 100% of my church involved in small groups?
- What are the basic elements of an effective small groups system?
- How do I recruit and train enough small-group leaders?
- What are the myths that are holding back my small groups?
- What is a good structure for small-group ministry?
- How do I get small groups involved in serving and evangelism?
- How do I get started?
P.S. Since Kerrick and Adam are on the front lines of the latest Activate Small Groups thinking, you may want to consider applying for their upcoming Small Groups Pastor Tele-Coaching Network. For more info or to download an application, click here.
How to Handle Childcare in Small Groups (Free Downloads)
One regular concern that I am asked about when it comes to Activate (semester-based) Small Groups is “how do we handle childcare?”
Recently, my friend Roy Mansfield (Small Groups Pastor at Northstar Church in Panama City) shared some of his thoughts and best practices on how to best accommodate the children of Small Group participants.
He gave me permission to re-print his insights AND to share some of their documents with you:
We have a large number of children in our church. I’ve found that there are several issues that are often viewed as challenges but are really wonderful opportunities to have a much more effective small group.
We have a handout (see below) that we give to our small group leaders of different possible child care options that they can use as a tool to decide how their group will take care of the children in their group.
The first time the group meets together they see the makeup of the children and their ages. The leader leads the group to decide how they will take care of the children. I equip the leaders to look at the makeup of the physical home and children and then suggest the best way to care for the children.
This is s fantastic opportunity for the group! The first time they meet together they have the opportunity to find a way to work together to care for one another. Leaders also have a sign up sheet (see below) that is used to give people the opportunity to take turns to watch the kids (if that’s the way they choose to care for the kids).
We also have groups do outreaches together. They all serve together at least once a semester in a Sunday service as well. As you will see from the sign up sheet we try to give as many people as possible a responsibility in the group. This transfers ownership to the group members as much as possible.
We do allow group leaders to list their group as “all children welcome” “unable to accommodate preschool children” or “unable to accommodate children” but we encourage as many groups as possible to be open to accommodate all children. See below for a sample groups list that we give to everyone to choose a group.
I hope this is a help.
Thanks.
Growing together…
Roy
Great thoughts – Here are those documents:
- Group Sign Up – Snacks, Childcare, Host Home (.doc)
- Small Group Childcare Options (.doc)
- Small Group Catalog (.pdf)
Thanks so much Roy!
P.S. To learn more about how to effectively implement small groups at your church (regardless of the setting) check out The Small Group Intensive.
How to Have Enough Small Group Leaders (Part 3)
Adam Bishop again today, sharing the 3rd and final element to being sure that you always have enough small group leaders at your church.
The final, and most important element in identifying and involving new group leaders is
TRUST
- You have to trust the judgment of the group leaders who are praying for and interacting with the members of their group each week when it comes to new group leaders.
- You have to trust the recommendations that you receive from your team leaders.
- You have to trust that the system you have put into place will produce the leaders you need for the next semester.
Without trust, you will find yourself scrambling and stressing to beg, borrow and steal enough group leaders each semester.
Kerrick Thomas and I share more strategies on how to identify, ask, and raise up new leaders in our monthly Small Groups Pastor Tele-Coaching Network, as well as all other aspects of how to effectively implement a semester-based small groups system.
The next network begins on February 4 (less than 30 days away), so there’s not much time left for you to sign up!
I hope that helps!
Adam
P.S. To download your application for our upcoming Small Groups Pastor Tele-Coaching Network, CLICK HERE.
How to Have Enough Small Group Leaders (Part 2)
Adam Bishop (Small Groups Pastor at The Journey) here again. I shared yesterday that the key to identifying and involving enough small group leaders at your church is to make that
process a priority for each of your current group leaders.
The only way to get your group leaders to actively pray for new leaders, see potential leaders as Jesus sees them and ask them to lead is through… you guessed it – TRAINING.
The training of your group leaders can be broken down into three categories:
1. ONCE-A-SEMESTER SMALL GROUP LEADERS TRAINING - This training needs to take place two weeks prior to the start of each semester. At The Journey, we have ours on a Sunday afternoon for three hours. So if you have a spring, summer, and fall semester you will have three trainings a year.
Begin with the end goal in mind – clearly communicate to your group leaders at the training that identifying, asking, and producing new group leaders from their group is one of the goals of leading a group.
Celebrate and reward group leaders who have modeled this well. At our last training, I gave away three gift cards for a day at the spa to the three group leaders who had produced the most new group leaders. Remember, what gets rewarded gets repeated.
2. WEEKLY TRAINING - Utilize a weekly email to your group leaders to reinforce the importance of identifying and asking new people to lead.
Around four to six weeks into the semester, ask your current group leaders to respond with the names of current group members who could potentially lead next semester.
3. MONTHLY TEAM LEADER TRAINING – I do not meet with all of our group leaders on a monthly basis, but I do meet with our Team Leaders.
Our team leaders are high capacity volunteers who provide care, communication, and coaching to the leaders of the five small groups on their team. The number of team leaders you have will grow as your number of groups grows.
I lead a one hour a month meeting with our Team Leaders on Monday nights. Regardless of the agenda at these meetings, I always make a point to focus on identifying and asking new people to lead in some form.
They in turn continue to communicate the importance of this to the group leaders on their team. All of this serves to raise the value of finding new leaders in our small groups system.
Don’t miss tomorrow’s post where I’ll share the most important element in finding enough group leaders…
P.S. The new Small Groups Pastor Tele-Coaching Network that Kerrick Thomas and I are leading is beginning in less than a month and we still have a few more spots available. For more information and to download an application, CLICK HERE
How to Have Enough Small Group Leaders (Part 1)
Good morning! This is Adam Bishop, Pastor of Small Groups at The Journey, and Nelson asked me to share some thoughts about a struggle that many churches face when it comes to small groups – finding enough group leaders!
The first question I ask when a Small Groups Pastor shares this issue with me is “Does the system you are using to identify and ask new group leaders function ‘within’ your current groups system or ‘in addition to’ your groups system?
In other words, does your small groups system include a mechanism that naturally finds and involves future leaders?
How do you do this while not interfering with your groups as they meet each week?
Interestingly enough, the answer lies within your current group leaders.
When it comes to identifying and asking new people to lead groups, there are three things that every current group leader must do:
1. PRAY - We want our group leaders to pray for the members of their group, specifically that some of them will lead future groups. We pray that God will prepare in advance those who we will ask to lead for the next semester.
2. SEE - We want our group leaders to see the members of their group as Jesus sees them – with potential to influence the lives of others. Jesus did not expect perfection or Biblical expertise to be a leader and neither should we.
3. ASK – We want our group leaders to boldly ask members from their group to lead. We tell our group leaders that the best thing they could ever do for someone else is to ask them to lead a group! It is a huge encouragement to the group member who is asked to lead. And… even if it doesn’t work out for the next semester, he or she will more than likely eventually lead a group.
So how do you make this a part of your small groups system? I’ll talk about that tomorrow.
P.S. Kerrick Thomas and I are making the final preparations for our brand new Small Groups Pastor Tele-Coaching Network that starts on February 4. For more information or to download your application, CLICK HERE.
P.P.S. You can download a FREE copy of Nelson’s new Activate: Uncut E-Book by clicking here.
When to Start Small Groups in Church Planting
This is Kerrick Thomas (Executive & Teaching Pastor at The Journey and
co-author of Launch and Activate.
Nelson asked me to address a key question that we are often asked by church planters: When should we begin small groups?
Our standard answer to that question is to wait until you have over 100 people attending before beginning small groups, but I thought I’d go a little further today to elaborate on the “why” behind the “when.”
So, why wait to start small groups?
Reason #1 - When you are first starting a church, you should not expend the energy required to get small groups started in the first 6 months regardless of how big you grow.
There is just too much to do for a church planter that early in the process. We recommend get your other systems under control at the beginning of the new church before moving on to small groups.
Systems like the Worship Planning System, the Assimilation System and the Evangelism System are foundational to a healthy start of a church, and they deserve your focus and energy before Small Groups.
Reason #2 - When you have fewer than 100 people your church basically is a small group. Everyone knows everyone anyway – so the importance of small groups is minimized.
It’s okay to start small groups if you are still under 100 if you’ve been going for over a year. Ideally you would have grown past 100, but even if you are running 50-80 people you can begin small groups and see positive spiritual fruit.
The whole idea behind holding off boils down to this: It’s best to wait to begin small groups until you can implement and facilitate them effectively, right from the start.
I hope that helps!
Blessings…
Kerrick
P.S. Adam Bishop and I are about to begin a brand new Small Groups Pastor Tele-Coaching Network in just a few weeks. For more information and to download an application, CLICK HERE.
You Don't Really Put 20 People in A Small Group, Do You?
This is Kerrick Thomas, Executive & Teaching Pastor at The Journey and co-author of Activate: An Entirely New Approach to Small Groups.
One of many contrarian ideas behind the Activate small groups system has to do with the number of people you allow to sign up for any one “small” group.
Nelson asked me to share some of the thinking behind that idea today.
Here’s a question we often hear:
I am struggling with your suggestion to allow 20 people to sign up for each small group. I have always heard/read/been taught/experienced that anymore than 10-12 in a group begins to diminish the discussion. Doesn’t that minimize each person’s participation? And who has a house large enough for 20 people to meet together? Can you help me understand this better?
This is one of those questions that we’ve gotten very familiar with over the last couple of years. We go further into explanation of “Why 20?” in Activate, so you can check that out if you haven’t already (to order from Amazon.com, CLICK HERE).
Here are a few thoughts:
1- 20 sign-ups doesn’t mean 20 “show ups”. 20 sign-ups means 12-15 people actually present and participating each week. Think about it. If you have 20 sign ups for a small group, 2-3 of the 20 will never show up. And with busy lives – 3-5 will miss on any given week.
So, if you allow 20 to sign up – you have the best chance of having 12-15 present in the group each and every week.
If you allow only 12 to sign up. 1-2 may never show up. And then 2-4 may miss on any given week. So instead of actually having 12 there every week – you end up with 6-8.
So – if your goal is 12-15 people present each week – let 17-20 people sign up for each group.
2- We believe that 12-15 people present is best for great discussion. If you have fewer than 8 people present in any group – the discussion suffers greatly (especially if you have fewer than 5).
Here’s why:
- In groups that are smaller (fewer than 8 ) – 1 weirdo can ruin the experience for everyone. We call this the “Weirdo Factor.” But in a group of 12-15 – one odd bird doesn’t stand out and can’t dominate.
- In a group that is smaller – one person can dominate discussion much easier than in a larger group.
- In a group that is smaller – there is less of a chance I’ll actually connect with someone in the group. I might not click with anyone. But in a group of 12-15 odds are that there is someone there I can relate to and would like to spend time with.
- In a group that is smaller – especially if you have people who are new to the church or who are not yet followers of Jesus – discussion may be non-existent. What if no one talks. Then the leader needs to be prepared to give a 45 minute lecture. They have to have the gift of teaching.
In other words – a larger group (12-15 people present) is much easier to lead for the leader, promotes more discussion, brings greater excitement, leads to the possibility of greater friendships and prevents one person from dominating the group or making it a bad experience.
3- Finally – the key issue in all this is leader retention. Will our small group leaders want to lead again next semester?
We have found that a leader has a much better experience if a group consistently has 12 – 15 people each week (makes discussion easier, better fellowship, etc.). So if you only allow 12 to sign-up and you have several nights when only 6 – 7 show up – that’s a tougher experience for the leader and it makes them less likely to lead again in the future.
Again – we say more about this in “Activate” in the Big Idea “Think Bigger, Not Smaller.”
Right now, if you’re still not completely convinced, I challenge you to trust me. Let your groups fill to 20 sign-ups and see how it positively impacts the groups experience.
And check out some of our other blog posts on small groups like this one:
http://www.churchleaderinsights.com/blog/2009/07/28/q-a-how-many-small-groups/
God bless…
Kerrick
P.S. – By the way – you or your small groups pastor should consider being a part of my upcoming Small Group Tele-Coaching Network. It kicks off on Thursday, November 19 and during the network me and my team will walk you through 2 semesters of small groups in the “Activate” system. The network comes with:
- Monthly 2-hour coaching phone call
- Hands-on coaching from guys going through the semester-based process ourselves
- Unlimited e-mail and phone access to me and our small group team
- Every single small group document and resource The Journey has ever used (including e-mails to leaders, leader trainings, calendars, promotion ideas and much more)
- Tons of other free resources and special guests on our phone calls
- Reading assignments every month
I’m just wrapping up a network right now with over 20 great churches in it. It has been phenomenal and each church has seen a dramatic increase in small group participation and life-change.
Here’s a link to the application and to find out more:
http://www.churchleaderinsights.com/coaching/smallgroupstelecoaching.php
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